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Unconditional Love

The greatest power known to man is that of unconditional love. Through the ages, mystics, sages, singers and poets have all expressed the ballad and call to love. As humans, we have searched endlessly for the experience of love through the outer senses. Great nations have come and gone under the guise of love for their people. Religions have flourished and perished while claiming the true path to love. We, the people of this planet, may have missed the simplicity of unconditional love. . . Simply stated, unconditional love is an unlimited way of being. We are without any limit to our thoughts and feelings in life and can create any reality we choose to focus our attention upon. There are infinite imaginative possibilities when we allow the freedom to go beyond our perceived limits. If we can dream it, we can build it. Life, through unconditional love, is a wondrous adventure that excites the very core of our being and lights our path with delight.

deutsche Übersetzung

Die größte Macht, die der Mensch kennt, ist die der bedingungslosen Liebe. Durch die Jahrhunderte hindurch haben Mystiker, Weise, Sänger und Dichter die Ballade und den Aufruf zur Liebe zum Ausdruck gebracht. Als Menschen haben wir endlos nach der Erfahrung der Liebe durch die äußeren Sinne gesucht. Große Nationen sind unter dem Deckmantel der Liebe zu ihrem Volk gekommen und gegangen. Religionen sind aufgeblüht und untergegangen, während sie den wahren Weg zur Liebe für sich beanspruchten. Wir, die Menschen auf diesem Planeten, haben vielleicht die Einfachheit der bedingungslosen Liebe verpasst. . . Einfach ausgedrückt, ist bedingungslose Liebe eine unbegrenzte Art des Seins. Wir sind in unseren Gedanken und Gefühlen unbegrenzt und können jede Realität erschaffen, auf die wir unsere Aufmerksamkeit richten wollen. Es gibt unendlich viele phantasievolle Möglichkeiten, wenn wir uns die Freiheit erlauben, über unsere wahrgenommenen Grenzen hinauszugehen. Wenn wir es träumen können, können wir es auch bauen. Das Leben ist durch bedingungslose Liebe ein wundersames Abenteuer, das den Kern unseres Wesens erregt und unseren Weg mit Freude erhellt.

Why Unconditional Love?
When we allow ourselves to understand the impact our actions have not only on ourselves but the planet we live on, we realize the necessity to take loving action. We each have the power to correct conditions within as well as to affect the world we live in. There are so many ways to apply love in our everyday lives. Yet, if we do not take care of ourselves, it is virtually impossible to feel and share love with the world around us. As an act of self-love, we can begin to educate ourselves and learn to take care of our physical bodies as well as keep our thoughts and feelings positive and loving. Nurturing ourselves also teaches us how to nurture life around us. Practice constant acts of kindness and you bring kindness upon this planet. Forgiveness is the easiest and most powerful act of kindness you can make. Both for yourself and for others, this activity promotes unity, harmony and oneness that transmutes the old into the new. This magnificent planet is filled with opportunities to experience love, respect, peace and joy. When we, as individuals, realize our potential to love unconditionally, we transform ourselves and the planet at the same time. Such is the power we wield every moment of every day. The choice is ours to create a world of joy and happiness, love and goodwill. Every moment of every day is a new beginning. This can be a powerful mantra or affirmation. The meaning held in these words opens us to a new way of living and experiencing life. Each moment holds a new beginning of possibility and an opportunity to create without limitation. We can let go of what we perceive or believe is before us and allow our personal potential to shine through. Start each day as a new journey of self discovery. Let go of yesterday and tomorrow and embrace the power of now. Remind yourself daily of the newness of life in the moment.
Power of Peace
So many people are calling, praying and demanding peace upon our beloved planet right now. Let us all be reminded that true peace is found when we are at peace within. Be at peace and you create a world of peace. Do not just pray for peace, become peace itself. Take the time to find the natural peace that resides within and you add to the real feeling of peace to everyone and everything around you. Let go of your fears and doubts and that of others. Be extremely discerning in what you focus your attention upon right now and question the messages and reflections. If it is loving, expand it. If it is less than loving, critical or in any way invokes hatred, fear or anger, release it and return to peace. It is an amazing time and many would like to make you think that doom and despair, fear and attack, are waiting around every corner. Don't believe it. Create your own pictures of reality and fill them with peace and love. Walk in joy and harmony and know that all is well. You can add your energy to this vision by contemplating peace and tapping into the higher desire for peace at any moment. This is especially helpful when you choose a particular time each day (for example 9 p.m.) to feel and think about peace for a few minutes, building a sustainable rhythm and habit.
Living With Love
The power of love is held within each of us every moment. This wondrous energy is available merely by our use and conscious recognition. When we choose to love one another we transcend the lower personality perceptions and rise to a higher truth. We recognize our oneness, wholeness and interconnectedness. This is not a conditional love or the type of love one may try to use to earn favors or expect validation, rather this is a universal and unconditional love that recognizes the beauty in life every moment. It is of a higher nature. It is a natural expression that does not expect an outcome. It is giving just for the sake of giving. It is in the sharing and giving of love to others that we receive the same that we give. Give love and surely you will experience love itself. Express love to the world around you and the world will reflect back to you the power of love. Each of us desires to understand and realize this experience of love. Just listen to the lyrics of music and you will quickly see how much the notion of love plays a part in our personal journey of life. We seek it in our families, relationships, careers, religions, hobbies, and even at times we look to nature itself. All the while, it is right within us ready to be given out and experienced. Love is such a powerful force especially when shared.
Our Soul Purpose
To the divine presence in all of us, know that we are moving on in our healing journey and bringing light to all of those in our path. Light of love will shine so bright, followers will feel pure joy. Once this happens the world will become one in body, mind and spirit. Transcendence into light and love is the soul purpose here of the earth. We are not here for our own purpose, don’t you see, we are here for the universal purpose? Once our spiritual path is defined, we are to follow it to contribute to the whole. This is the universe unfolding into itself…this is the moment of creation re-defined. We all as a collective are responsible for this unfolding. Each of us…no one escapes this contribution. So you see, meditation and spiritual practices keep us aligned with this purpose. Then our lives feel in synchrony and not disharmony. Disharmony meaning loss of meaning and direction, not a peace within. Inner peace and harmony need to exist, before world peace exists. Nonetheless, both are plausible and achievable brought about by inner light. Listen to your own inner message about what feels right…joy and light or sorrow and darkness. Pay close attention to your inner dialogue as it struggles with this change. As a bringer of light and love, I and all the other super conscious children of the world will assist you in this movement. Through staying tuned in, you help all of this to happen. Bringer of Light and Love,
A New Resolve
Who will you be in the future? How do you want to experience life? Will you be more kind, gentle, forgiving, tolerant and loving? Or will you continue to give your power away to the fear and doubt that is so prevalent right now in our society? The choice is ultimately yours. Might we suggest a resolution to love unconditionally? (No need to wait until New Year's when "every moment of every day is a new beginning" - H. Becker) Within you is an unlimited supply of love and you hold the key to its release. Fear and doubt, anger and hate, have no more control over our lives than we allow. Can it be that simple? It really is. Loving is a choice we can make every moment. Begin with yourself. Realize that you are a powerful, spiritual and angelic being and can create with love. Take care of your thoughts and feelings and make sure they reflect the positive you. Also observe your actions and insure that they have a loving intent too. Even when our emotions get the best of us and the stress and concerns of life become a bit overwhelming, just remember we have tools of forgiveness, meditation, visualization and letting go to assist us in overcoming the negative experiences we encounter each day. Some things just are not worth worrying about or holding on to. When you are clear and receptive to your own higher, loving nature, you can then direct this love to people and places around you. Your peace becomes the peace for others. Your love becomes the love other people feel. Be the angel you are and choose to live freely and joyfully. In doing so, you make this a better world to live and love in!


Hello ....
The "must haves" of my dream woman include her being able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life, someone I can count on to always support me, give me space to be my own person, and who can handle life's frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady, demeanor. It would also be nice of her to be someone who is generous with her compassion, attention, sympathies and Love. Someone who is Intimate enough to share their deepest emotional thoughts and desires, someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection. Being Gentle and Kind are also traits that attract me, I also like to have a partner that enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends. And most of all I must feel deeply inlove and attracted to her.I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me, someone who is so tightfisted as to be impractical. Other things you can find on my turn off list include being Judgmental, Pessimistic, Self Centered and Mean Spirited. Infidelity, Vanity and being unrelainble could also send me packing at extreme stages.
So am I asking for too much.

1. what do like to do when you stay at home for the evening? watch TV? clean? talk on the phone? read?
2. If you were taken by your date to a party where you knew no one, how would you respond?
A: stay close to my date, letting him/her introduce me
B: find a spot at the back bar and relax alone, letting him/her work the room
C: strike out on my own, introducing myself and making friends
D: I would ask my partner if I could skip this particular event
3. How often do you lose your temper?
A: practically never
B: once in a while
C: on occasion during a week
D: probably once a day on average

4. When in a relationship, how much personal space do you generally find you need?
A: I don't have a great need for "personal space". I like lots of together time.
B: I find my time spent working is enough personal time, the rest I like to spend with my partner.
C: As long as I can get one night a week to myself, my personal space needs are met.
D: When I'm with my partner I'm completely there, but I do need considerable time for personal reflection.
5. If you had to characterize the end of most of your romantic relationships, they would be described as:
A: pleasant as breaking up can be, with both people feeling it was the best decision
B: sad, with one partner being hurt and feeling betrayed
C: very dramatic, with lots of hurtful accusations
D: angry, with lots of feelings of disappointment
6. Which of the following marriage issues do you fear most?
A: fear of growing apart
B: fear of marrying the wrong person
C: fear of becoming "your parents"
D: fear of being hurt

7. How important is chemistry to you?
A: I need to feel that instant "click"
B: within the first couple of dates I need to sense a certain chemistry
C: I think chemistry can be generated over the long-term with someone I really like
D: I don't believe chemistry is really important to a successful relationship
8. Which of the following scenarios would make you more nervous?
A: making a presentation to 500 people
B: a long car ride with a person you just met
C: talking about your deepest fears with your lover
D: meeting with the president of the company you work for
9. How many books did you read last year?
A: 0-3
B: 3-7
C: 8-12
D: more than 12

10. When going somewhere:
A: I am usually early
B: I am usually on time
C: I am usually late
D: I am often very late or don't show
11. Which of the following indoor activities sounds like the most fun to you?
A: cooking
B: shopping
C: bowling
D: watching a video
12. What best describes your parents' relationship towards each other:
A: married and loving
B: married but distant
C: divorced and civil
D: divorced and abusive

i want you to know it takes a strong woman to accomplish everything that you have in your life, I am proud of you that you stick to your goals, you have improved your life so much from what it was before and I am so happy that you respect my beliefs as I respect yours. You say that i will be happy when we see... well, you have already done that, just by being you and showing me true feelings and being so open with your feelings. You are what I dreamed of when I was a little boy, someone with integrity, honesty, love, affection, beauty, and with such a charming personality. I never thought I would find you, but here you are.You have overcome many obstacles within your life which have made you the wonderful person you are today. You should be very proud that you have persevered all your experiences and with it you have lived, acknowledged, and learned and you have never intentionally done on to others as it has been done unto you for you know what it feels like and you have the strength to rise above it all. You are attractive, generous, honest, humorous, intelligent, kind, lovable, loving, passionate and a wonderful mother. The person who will obtain the key within your heart in the future will be blessed to have the love in which you are cable of giving to someone. May God Bless you and always give you the strength for you to continue to grow and love.
I would like to start off saying that I am a CLASSY MAN, I am ONLY looking for true serious relationships...A lasting open partnership with a mutualbeneficial ADULT arrangement that's stable, reliable and above all HONEST.

I am also mature, intelligent and spiritual, as well as fit, sweet and very playful. I am also honest, and spiritual, as well as fit, sweet and very playful. I am also honest,reliable, respectful and available. I hope you have these qualities as well.. I am very unique so no liars, read further. I LOVE music, reading, traveling,and even camping...too much to put all here. I truly enjoy the finer things in life and also live life to the FULLEST!!! I love to laugh, am very easy to get along with and have a lot to say. I can't remember ever having a boring day in my life. If this is what you seek then please keep reading. I am extremely sensual,romantic and I have a big heart. I use to be quite insatiable, but now have learned that there is more to life than SEX. When you have a balance of what life has to offer, then you can achieve BLISS. This is where I reside and would like to share it with someone who deserves this level of comfort and pleasure.
Do you desire this as well? I am widow and have been that way for sometime now.
I am secure, stable and independent, yet still youthful, creative and exciting. I love to play and have FUN. Life is too short to complain about it. It's for living and learning, enjoying and exploring, experiencing and evolving. Did I get your attention yet?? I live, work and play HARD. I seek discretion, trust and maturity. So if you are safe, sane, sober and secure, then we have a great start. Especially if you love to TRAVEL, seek adventures and desire great companionship. I am not a moody psycho that's going to turn exorcist on you either. I am quite safe, sane and sober myself. I am very discreet, refined and not embarrassing. I do not do drugs or drunks and am disease free. I prefer to live a healthy lifestyle. Are you still with me??? I am not plastic, nor perfect.
I have many goals, one of them is to help make this planet a better place to live. The older I get, the more set in my ways I become. That is why I seek this special kind of relationship. I am happy, content and not lonely on my own, yet I seek companionship as well. OK, enough about me. Now it's time for you!!

I dont have a real "type" that I am looking cause there would be nowords to describe how beautiful she is, or how special she is, or my love forher. To put these things into words would be to define them,To quantify them,which means to limit them. There would be a beginning and an end.There is nodefinition fitting, nor any limit, nor beginning or end to her beauty, or to how special she is, or my love for her when we eventually get to meet ..A caring woman that is willing to settle down with me for a serious relationship,I will know it when I meet her .looking forward to the future.
That being at peace with yourself is the first component needed to be a good partner. Loyalty and commitment to the person you have chosen to build a life with must be top priority . Being creative and attentive to the ongoing process of maintaing love and passion is vitally important so that the love does not grow stale.I am looking for someone who shares some of my same qualities and interests and likes to hang out and have fun, whether we are at home or out. When you find that special person, you should be able to have fun no matter where you are! I am looking for someone who wants a boyfriend that can also be their best friend.
yours truly

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